Unless you've walked in the shoes of the ministers wife you can never understand the loneliness and isolation that comes with the job. Although her husband takes the role of church leader and is almost always front and center it takes a unique woman to stand in the wings and provide the support he needs to be what he has to be for his "flock". Behind closed doors she is the strength, guidance and support that keeps these men focused on their faith, grounded, and prepared to deal with the enormous responsibility God has given them. They are the angels God blesses our church leaders with to care for and truly represent what the "missing rib" means. They are protectors of the most vulnerable and most attacked part of a pastor...his heart. The best description of this type of woman is a "Proverbs 31" woman and our Miss 'Nita has set a fine example of how that woman should live.

 

 

DATE: April 17, 2007 Subject:

My parents, who came to East Tennessee via World War II, went back home to South Carolina after the war – only to return to Oak Ridge in 1953.  I had just started seventh grade; and I met and became friends with a great group of girls.

We were all from the same neighborhoods and economic backgrounds – poor – and yet, truly rich – although none of us really knew about either one at the time.  We had all grown up with the same rich family values; we went to church together; and we all graduated from Oak Ridge High School in 1959.

After graduation, we all went our separate ways and married our high school sweethearts, “older men”, coop students; or, as in my case, we met our mates in college.  We all had children; some of us have grand children; and most of us left Oak Ridge for other cities.

We called ourselves “The Dirty Dozen”; but we were neither dirty, nor a dozen.

This past weekend, I attended a reunion of eight of us – the most “beautifulest” (as my grandson would say) of the Class of ’59.  Well, maybe not physical beauty; as I think back, there may have been prettier girls, but we were wholesome and pure, naive and innocent – nothing like those characters portrayed in the supposedly “Fabulous Fifties” movie, “Grease”.

Most of us were searching our hearts spiritually.  I had come to know Jesus as a nine year old child; I didn’t really understand it, but I was simply trusting in the One I heard about in my regular church attendance.  At fifteen, I was in a powerful evangelistic service; and I re-dedicated my life to Christ.  I became very convicted of my sins; and I wanted them covered by Jesus’ blood.

I had many questions that were not answered at that time; and became dissatisfied with the church I was attending, and actually began visiting other denominations looking for answers and spiritual food.  I had many long conversations with my “gang”; and found that they were searching and questioning too.

In 1965, my husband, Tom, and I were blessed to find a church where a lot of my questions were answered.  Hearing the Word preached and taught so plainly, my spiritual eyes were truly opened and I saw the Kingdom of God.  My soul was truly being blessed and fed as never before; and I began to grow as a Believer.

If you are questioning your purpose in life and searching for the big answers; first and foremost, you must trust that the Blood of Jesus can and will save you from your sins – your yesterdays, todays, and tomorrows.

Jesus led a sinless life as a man – truly a man – He died for our sins as God and man.  The simple act of believing that He led shed His blood for me is all it takes to assure me a home in heaven.  He opened my spiritual eyes and flooded my soul with His wonderful peace; and what more could we ask for?

I’m looking forward to a greater Reunion Day; and sincerely hope my old friends and many new friends and loved one will be there.  After trusting Jesus with your eternity; trust His Word; read it; believe it; and listen to it being preached and taught – then go out and live it!

 

 

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